Its different for everyone, trial and error is probably the only way to find out your calorie needs for bulking. I started on 3200 and now on 4000 cals.
Goals for 2014 (current best)
Squat: 160 kg (135 kg)
Bench: 100 kg (80 kg)
Dead: 200 kg (180 kg)
Start training BJJ/Judo and compete, do a meet, eat more steak !
Take a more positive outlook on life.
"Take the risk of thinking for yourself, much more happiness, truth, beauty, and wisdom will come to you that way."
- Christopher Hitchens