Originally Posted by samW
I was talking to a friend and said that I was going to get into body building so I could have more self esteem. She was like why do you want to do that? Do you realize you will look gross all muscular and all? Why do people have to be this way and what can you say to them when they say it?
Seems to me like she is trying to bring your self esteem down. Do not let her words be the deciding factor in what you do. Do what makes you happy and that is all that matters.