Just saw the meet vid (love the classic feel of B&W BTW). I hear ya on bench - pretty much the same thing happened to me. I had done 265 bench at home many times, yet could not do it at the meet. I think out of the 3 lifts, benching at a meet is the most difficult and frustrating. It's also very technical. Our time will come!!
My Favorite Part Of Lifting Is Having The Opportunity
Squat 403 lbs
Bench: 253 lbs
Deadlift: 463 lbs
Total: 1119 lbs