Jim, from what I can only gather from this forum, you have a loving wife and daughter. A family that still is and always will be by your side. Past aside, there is no prouder circumstance than that. Your a good guy, and while only through the internet, its been nothing but a pleasure meeting you.
For those of us addicted to the iron, it is the one thing in life that we control.
I wish you the best in moving forward. Keep kicking ass.