Muscular and bulky looking is only one area that needs to be addressed, the other one is that females have this issue with not feeling "soft"; I was once informed that a female wanted my body shape but once she felt my bicep, she launched straight in to the "I don't want to lose that feminine softness", it didn't dawn on her that a muscle is only really solid to the touch when it's flexed.
There's a long way to go where females and strength training is concerned.
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