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Davis 02-14-2012 07:14 PM

Any experience with Asian women?
 
I'm normally not one to ask anyone for advice on "getting" a girl, but this is different for me. I'm hoping someone here knows a thing about Asian women. There's a Chinese girl in a class of mine. She's beautiful. A sweet girl. However, when I talk to her I freeze a bit. I'm almost like a nervous guy asking a girl out for the first time. Reason being I'm afraid of offending her in with cultural differences I may be unaware of. Advice? Maybe I'm profiling her too much?

Of course I had to post on Valentine's Day.

T-Bone 02-14-2012 07:45 PM

My suggestion would be to talk to her about the class and the homework. Then, as you get closer, you could ask her about her culture and how she finds living in the west. Ask her if she has a favorite restaurant, then maybe she could take you there. That sort of thing.

My mother gave me some great advice when I started dating: Ask questions to get the person to talk about themselves. They will always remember you as someone easy to talk to.

Good luck!

BendtheBar 02-14-2012 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by T-Bone (Post 216782)

My mother gave me some great advice when I started dating: Ask questions to get the person to talk about themselves. They will always remember you as someone easy to talk to.

Good luck!

This is great advice. Someone once told me that the way to make a friend is to ask questions.

Davis 02-14-2012 08:19 PM

Basically I should treat her like an American girl, huh? I've talked to her some about things in China. I probably have a good basis if I'm not stupid about everything. After reading your all's posts again I feel like I can "do this" now. Thanks a lot. I just got too caught up in her being Chinese I guess.

Shadowschmadow 02-15-2012 07:36 AM

American, Chinese, Hungarian, whatever. You're over-thinking this too much, and that will drive the nail in your coffin. Relax, be a gentleman and everything else will fall into place.

Davis 02-15-2012 08:32 AM

If I could add rep from my cell phone, Shadow, I would.

Hazzard 02-15-2012 02:12 PM

Ask her if she's an only child.

Grixx 02-16-2012 07:47 PM

From my experiences Asian girls are prude. They will be more than eager to hang out with you, but if you start touching them to much they'll kind of keep themselves distant from you.

Ryano 02-16-2012 07:56 PM

I had alot of experiences with Asian women a long time ago. Awww yessss. Fond memories. ;)

ffemtny 02-16-2012 10:19 PM

Experience none, but I hear they kinda taste like chicken and your hungry an hour later


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