Originally Posted by jdmalm123
That was the epiphany I had 20 years ago. Everything is better since.
Choice and consequences. Make one, accept the other, and you are free.
I have had the same epiphany and for me I took it a little farther and realized that other people can make their own choices and it is not my fault or problem.. If my kids (they are adults now) make a bad choice it is not my fault -- it is their choice...
It took me awhile to get there but it was great when I did...