I'd have to say the amount, and diversity of friends I have. I can call up Walter there in his 70s and we can talk about food, time travel whatever. I can call Angie in California and set up a visit. I can drive a few hours in any direction from where I'm at now and find a few people I know. A guy with a Ferrari F50, another with 3 houses and 4 Range Rovers. Good ol boys out weed eating the grave yard. Lots of women. A lot of women. A lot. If I'm feeling good, I can talk to and make friends with anyone.
If violence doesnt solve your problems, youre not using enough of it