There's only one person I'm worried about being attractive to, and that's my wife. I know that's not the perspective of people who are still in the dating pool, but being happy with yourself is WAY more important than being what you think other people will want. My wife loves that I'm big and strong, even if I'm not ripped. Start by being the person YOU want to be, then worry about finding someone who likes who you've become.
And if your signifigant other doesn't like where you're going but you do, you need to rethink things because maybe that person isn't who you need playing that role in your life.
Current PRs at 242, raw w/ wraps- 525, 355, 605, 1485
Roboro tui, perimo vester adversarius
(Build yourself, destroy your enemy)