Originally Posted by 5kgLifter
That would seem the better approach, though you still can't guarantee that you'll get a postive reaction or how it will pan out afterwards.
It's a complex situation because with any scenario you choose to follow, you can't know what the reaction will be. Whichever course of action you choose, I hope it turns out okay.
That is my dilemma. I don't know how it will turn out and I fear the worst.
If I were in there shoes, I would feel bad when the neighbor with a little kid told me they could smell it and I would change my behavior. But They could react belligerantly, I don't know.