Originally Posted by 5kgLifter
If someone sends you a letter, you can choose to respond or not...if someone beats you physically for years, it scars you emotionally what one person does to another has a direct effect on their reaction, to some degree...to be in full control is a nice rosy view but not reality by any means.
Otherwise shellshocked war victims would still be considered cowards, when they are clearly not.
I'm astounded that you can even consider psychological abuse as immaturity, they are not the same thing.
What is it that you think I said, I am talking about children growing up to be fully functioning adults.
And not everyone is emotionally scared by what has happened to them.
How did we get from someone being called out about their weight to shell shock veterans?