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Old 10-08-2012, 03:56 PM   #40
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Originally Posted by Chillen View Post
We all take responsibility for our "reaction" no matter the stimulus in which brought the reaction. You can not control what another person does to you, but you are in control in what your response is, and whether it succeeds in penetrating your senses.
If someone sends you a letter, you can choose to respond or not...if someone beats you physically for years, it scars you emotionally what one person does to another has a direct effect on their reaction, to some degree...to be in full control is a nice rosy view but not reality by any means.

Otherwise shellshocked war victims would still be considered cowards, when they are clearly not.

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I respectfully disagree. Maybe some but not all. Its not the emotions, but how we deal with them that matters. By adulthood one should have left childhood immaturities be hide.
I'm astounded that you can even consider psychological abuse as immaturity, they are not the same thing.
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