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Old 07-05-2009, 02:25 PM   #3
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Sometimes the only thing you do is forcefully take charge. Tell the kids to sit down and shutup. If they don't listen, unplug every electrical device and throw them outside.

I hate to give you one of those "I was there" type of spiels...but I was. I awoke one day to find my (now ex) wife wasn't paying the car and rent. She was paying credit cards instead, trying to hide them from me. In a week's time we lost our car and apartment due to non-payment.

It was time for me to take charge of my life and find ways to prevent things like this from happening again.

Find a way to get a car. Find a way to control the kids - don't fear major punishments - you are the adult. And somehow find a way to get through to your wife so she understands the opinions of others means little in this life.

Hang in there Tim. Stress carves character. Take charge the best you can. There is nothing worse in life then allowing situations control you.
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